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Thursday, November 20, 2008

You Know Your Old When...


Your oldest son turns twelve and has one inch to be the same height as you. I don't think I am old in "great grandma" fashion, but I am stunned that the little boy that I wanted so badly is becoming so grown up. He still does childish things, but there is definitely an ere of young adult about him. He likes to be independent, and he has his own ideas about the way the world works. I just hope that he will keep his wits about him and make good choices. I will keep doing my part to shape and mold him into a nice, health, strong, young man. He will also have an upward battle with the way the world is, to keep his head on straight. But I know he can do it. I just think how lucky I am to have this big little boy for a few more years until he goes to college or mission whichever comes first.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Random Goings On...

Okay, so this will be just me rambling on about my crazy week and my little kids. I got every one's post for your emails with me sending my blog to "private". I wanted to give anyone else a chance that has not said they want to be included.
I worked all week at the kids school in the Special Education class. I loved being able to spend time with these kids and had a good time with them. What a hard job. These people definitely don't get paid enough for what they do. Changing diapers of a ten year old, potty training a 6 year old, making sure children don't eat to much of the school lunch, the list of things that the do goes on and on. It made me think of how it was trying to take care of Dave's dad and all our little kids at the same time. I sure can see the special spirits that those kids are. It felt good when one of the teachers said That she would miss me helping on of the students in her class. That was really nice.

I have to say I really love the teachers at my kids school. They might not work the kids like they did in California, but they sure do know how to encourage them, with love and kindness. I am so thankful for the nice teachers the kids have this year. (now if they could find what happened to their nice mother, they would be happy all the time). I always joke about how many assemblies the kids have at this school. But the two they had were really good. The first one was on Veteran's day. The kids honored a dad that is in the military. It was great to hear a man from Panama say that this is the "Greatest County on the Earth" it is hard to believe that not everyone thinks this. The second assembly was today, the students at the school have read over 1,000,000 minutes since the first month of school. The teachers and students yelled a chant from each grade. One of the best first grade teacher's told a story, it was very funny and all 825 students were glued to her every word. They gave away some books and encouraged the kids to keep reading. It was just such a good feeling to know that those teachers care about the kids.

Now on to the crazy part of my life. I have been so emotional about Dave taking this job in California, and having to sell my house, and him being gone. It is hard work taking care of four kids, trying to work, clean my house, and get rid of extra stuff we don't really need. Then on top of that getting kids to band concerts, scouts, letting them play with friends and all the other stuff that mom's do. I have to say that the thing I miss when Dave is gone is just being able to hold his hand or look at him across the room and know that I am not alone in what is going on. 700 miles is quite a barrier to see through. When we were just dating and I lived in Colorado and he lived in California, I use to worry that something would happen to one of us before we got married and then what would I/he do. We had some friends get sealed in the Temple on Wednesday, I was able to go and see their family all together in the sealing room. The sealer said something about no matter how far apart they were from each they were a companionship from then on, even if separated by many miles. I know that we are blessed for making those covenants in the Temple, and that Dave and I are strong and can withstand another short storm in our life. It is better that we be together and that he does not need to travel much with work anymore. I can see how much my kids need their daddy. And I need him too. So I just need to wait for the "right " couple to decide that they want to buy my house. The Lord knows who they are and I just need to do all I can to be ready when they show up. I am so thankful to all my friends that have asked me if I need anything or if I am okay. Hopefully the water works won't be working over time in the future. Poor Brother Rodriguez, got a bucketful, when he asked me about it this week, while we were at the temple. We will make it through this short time apart. We lasted eight months while we long distance dated, until I moved to Cali from Colorado. We can make it for a little while now.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Going Private

Hey, Please tell me who you are if you want to see my blog. Because i will be alone so much the next few months I want to be extra safe. So even if you are just a casual looker I need your addie.
Thanks,
Samantha

Saturday, November 1, 2008

And... Yes we are going back to Cali (at least Dave is for now).

Okay, so drama aside. Dave took the job. We are really excited for him. It is a big move forward in our family life. He won't need to travel anymore, we think, maybe just to visit us until our house sells. He has to go to Arizona next week with his boss. So I am not sure if he will be bring his usual Ice cream to the the Jordan's home.
Jason and Melissa we are going to schedule one of Dave's four weeks of vacation to go to Arizona and camp with you (even if it is in your back yard). You have been so great to let Dave hang out with you while he has had to travel in Phoenix. He will miss your funny ice cream nights!!
Then he will be home for the weekend, and then off to California. He reports to his new post on November 10Th. ( I don't think anyone from his company, aside from the HR people and his boss know yet, if they look at our blog the cat is out of the bag) oops. Anyway, I hope he can come home for Stevie's birthday. He bought a great gift for Steven. I want him to see his face when he opens it. Then We will have Thanksgiving with my family. (They better come!!!) Then hopefully we will be packing at Christmas because someone wants my house for The New Year!! If you have not owned a house in the last two or three? years the government will give you a tax credit if you buy a house, before the end of the year!! $7500 tax credit. Pass it on to all the renters you know. I am willing to have visitation with my hubby until about February. If our house has not sold by February, then we will have to rethink our living arrangement and put our family back together in Cali somehow.
Why not move back to our Manteca house you ask? Our renters have been so good, and we like having the rental,and Dave calls it the "hood" over there by our house. So, we have been having Kevin Wentworth check out foreclosure seen for us. If we can get our 20% out of this house, then maybe can buy a foreclosure in Manteca or Ripon. So I am excited to come home, but I need to keep a grip on reality, that my house may sell fast or not. It is only 30 minutes to downtown Salt Lake, and the best house in Stansbury (if you ask me). We wish we could take it and our fun neighbors with us. Oh that is sad so I won't go there. I am purging lots of things everyone would be so proud!! The DI will be getting some good packages in the next week or so. Back to Fog and Sun. Yeah!!